Getting a vasectomy any advice or suggestions?

Question

My appointment is scheduled for tomorrow. I have to admit im a little freaked out. What should i expect? how do i not feel depressed im doing it? any suggestions would be helpful.
thank you.

Answer 1

When I brought my husband home after his (we have 4 kids already,) he had to ride home in the car on his knees. He had a few rough days, but it's all easy sailing after they check you for sperm....lots of sex whenever he wants it...can't complain about that. I'm enjoying myself better, too. No worries!!! And to the moron who thinks the female should get her tubes tied, SHUT UP!!! She already carried each child for 9 MONTHS, got fat, had to go through a VERY PAINFUL labor/delivery and care for the child way more than the man ever did!!!!

Answer 2

Like the other comments stated...you made the decision so you have already answered those weighty questions. SO, what can you expect...yes to the ice bag. You will be told not to work the rest of the day and NO heavy lifting for the day - do it. The next day you will be fine - no pain. The Doc will numb you, cut the scrotum and find the trans deference tubes, which he will cut - on both sides. Then sew you up and send you on your way. Tylenol was all I needed after for pain - what little there was. Best wishes..no luck needed.

Answer 3

Having a vasectomy is a very personal and important decision. The medical profession will tell you to consider sterilisation as permanent, therefore you must be absolutely sure that this is what you want. Also vasectomy is not the right choice for everyone!



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Answer 4

Well if you've come this far you must be convinced it's what you want to do. If it is then proceed. It's really not that big of a deal. The procedure takes about twenty minutes and recovery isn't bad. Follow the doctor's recommendations, take it easy for a few days. Nothing to it.



If you change your mind later it can usually be successfully reversed.

Answer 5

It's easy, simple, and done usually, right in the office. I'm glad I did it. The soreness wears off pretty soon and is not too bad. Your scrotum will turn black and blue, but it won't really feel bruised. You'll be happy about it later. Trust me. It's a lot easier than what women have to go through thats for sure. Do it for her.

Answer 6

there are various styles of beginning administration that at the instant are not hormonal and as a result have fewer area outcomes. i'd advise going to a doctor and have them clarify all your techniques. i'm a woman and that i hate my husband utilising condoms besides. We do use them even nonetheless i'm utilising yet another style of beginning administration, because of fact we want to be extra careful, yet in basic terms placed the condom on top earlier he climaxes. for sure if he has precum i'd desire to nevertheless get pregnant, yet we experience risk-free on the grounds that i've got even have been given the different beginning administration. i assume i'm basically attempting to assert I sympathize. besides, desire that helped!

Answer 7

My husband did before we even met, and he swears by it. He sais that it's not painful, he even got laid that day. And he says it's the best thing he has done... Unfortunately if he wants it reversed it's a LOT of money.

It's a choice if you like sex and no protection, you can be sure that you wont be fathering kids from right and left. Thumbs Up for you!! Good choice

Answer 8

My son-in-law did this last May, and he thinks it's great! Just be careful the first couple of days, then...if you're married.....he says more sex, more fun because they both know......NO MORE BABIES!! (they have five)

Answer 9

Just remember that it's the right decision for you (as I'd assume it is, if you're getting it). Good luck and congrats! :)

Answer 10

I chickened out on mine as soon as my brother told me about his. I wish you luck. buy an icepack. you'll be fine. I feel for you though.

Answer 11

ummm dont! let the ***** get her tubes tied or something.